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Search Search. Menu Sections. My boyfriend and I have been going out for nearly two years and for the most part the relationship is good. I am a single mother and I feel he doesn't understand the strains of this. I am not the most confident person when it comes to my capabilities or looks. I doubt myself a lot and I think he is aware of this.



Why Does My Boyfriend Look at Other Women?

Search Search. Menu Sections. My boyfriend and I have been going out for nearly two years and for the most part the relationship is good. I am a single mother and I feel he doesn't understand the strains of this. I am not the most confident person when it comes to my capabilities or looks. I doubt myself a lot and I think he is aware of this. He is constantly eyeing up other women and is very pass-remarkable in terms of other women in front of me calling them "rides" or saying very inappropriate things.

He also 'likes' different girls' photos on social media. I catch him out a lot checking out other women. I'm just so sick of it because it makes me feel so bad about myself! To be honest, I'm a rather jealous person anyway, but I do think this is totally inappropriate behaviour.

I really want a future with him and do see myself marrying him but feel his behaviour is totally disrespectful. I have to ask why you would envision yourself marrying somebody who makes you feel like this. It is indeed stressful to be a single mother without the help of another person with whom you can share the worries and doubts that motherhood brings, particularly with the first child.

You don't say whether your boyfriend is the father of your child but I doubt it because you would not be feeling as stressed if he were the father. The main problem you have with your boyfriend is that he is constantly checking out other women and letting you know that he finds them attractive.

When challenged he probably says that there is no harm in looking providing he doesn't do anything about it other than look. Part of me wants to urge you to do the same to him - any time you see a good looking guy comment on how attractive you find him - because this would really let him see what it is like to be on the receiving end.

However, it may not affect him at all because of the type of personality he has, whereas it makes you even less self-confident than you are already. It was fascinating on reading Michelle Obama's autobiography to discover that she struggled in her early years - in fact until she finished college and started to work - with feeling that she was not good enough.

She came from a very humble background and had to constantly remind herself that she was indeed good enough when comparing herself to other people. Take some time to remind yourself of your good points, what people like about you and what you are good at. So even when looking in the mirror instead of telling yourself that you don't like, say, your hair, concentrate on something that you do like about your appearance and enjoy that feeling.

Make it a daily practice to remind yourself what it is you like about your personality and how you look, as it's important that we boost our confidence when we are feeling undermined and unappreciated by the people around us. And that way when someone gives you a compliment, you'll be in a position to welcome it and accept it, and get the full benefit of it.

Jealousy is quite a normal emotion and it is natural to feel jealous from time to time - particularly when you see other people having what appears to be an absolutely fabulous life on Facebook and Instagram. However, insecurity often underlies jealousy, and if a relationship is the cause of your insecurity it can therefore be the cause of your jealous feelings.

Also, you may have had earlier experiences, which you haven't mentioned in your letter, which resulted in your feeling jealous and these experiences could also be a contributing factor to your current jealousy.

Ask your boyfriend why he does something that hurts you so much. Tell him that even though he sees nothing wrong with it, it affects you deeply and makes you question his love for you.

If he continues to do it then it proves he is more concerned with his own gratification than showing you that he loves you. All correspondence will be treated in confidence. I've been with my boyfriend for over a decade but in the past six or seven months he has changed so much. I feel like I'm damaged goods and I don't know if I should tell my partner.

I was pregnant twice in a previous long-term relationship. Both unplanned pregnancies ended prematurely, causing much emotional trauma. I have known my wife for more than 20 years and we have been married for more than Our sex life is non-existent. I'm a Hindu and have grown up in a conservative family. I want to marry a Christian girl who I love so much.

Facebook Twitter Email Whatsapp. April 15 AM. Facebook Twitter Email. I feel like I'm waiting for him to find someone better than me. I have confronted him several times on this subject but he takes no notice. What would your view be on this? Most Read Cross-Dressing: I'm a straight man who dresses as a woman

My boyfriend stares at other women

Oh dear. We all do it, every man on the planet. If we are bisexual then…..

Why would I? Legitimate concern. Believe it or not, not every glance has a sexual undertone.

A lot of men struggle with looking at other women. We also receive plenty of questions from men who struggle to keep their eyes on the women they are with. Here's a submission I received from just such a guy and my recommendations on how he can learn to stop. When younger I was just another guy who looks at other women, even when with my wife. I meant no harm, but it upset my wife and hurt her.

Q&A: Why do men look at other women when they have a girlfriend or wife?

This copy is for your personal non-commercial use only. My boyfriend of three years and I are happy together. I know he loves me and we have a great relationship. But it really bothers me when I notice that he checks out other women regularly. He gets annoyed and angry. Am I being silly to think I could curb his wandering eyes? Most people notice attractiveness, sexiness, style and even attitude. Few people are oblivious to these natural human signals. A notice is fine, a nod to the other woman is not, and stopping to stare is insulting. My parents were working poor, my sister and I had only the basics.

This Is What It Really Means When Your Man Looks At Another Woman (From A Man’s Perspective)

Will she finally tell him how it makes her feel and get the respect she deserves? Or will he be too busy staring at other girls to see her walking away for good? Some people have problems that require delicate advice from a qualified professional. Welcome back to Tough Love.

I was out shopping with my husband the other day and I caught him discreetly checking out another woman. Thank you very much for asking this question.

Man gawking at another woman iStock. It tends to happen a lot in relationships, but is it normal? Should you just accept this behavior and reason guys will be guys?

Why Guys Check Out Other Women — And How To Handle It

It's understandably upsetting when your boyfriend or husband checks out other women right in front of you. You might even find yourself wondering, "Does he really love me? He has me, so why does he need to look anyone else? The fact of the matter is that his wandering eye and your frustration with it probably has far more to do with some simple differences between men and women than it does his feelings for you.

I am in a serious relationship with a man that I have known for many years but have only started the relationship in the past few months. Our relationship seems like a dream, we have always cared for each other, but I think our timing was never right. We had started a relationship at 20 and I subsequently broke his heart. He did not communicate his feelings for me which led me to believe there was no future for us and I moved on. We have matured and grown and are better equipped emotionally to have a successful relationship, at least I feel that way. You have far more to worry about than a nudie poster.

Men in Relationships: Is It Normal to Look at Other Women?

You watch as the man you love turns his head, looks her up and down, and his eyes linger just a little too long on her breasts, or her backside. A torrent of questions runs through your mind: Does he want her? Is he not attracted to me anymore? Sound familiar? Take me for instance. I love and adore her. I want to spend the rest of my life with her. But I look.

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