How to make him want you uncontrollably
Everyone knows that men are infinitely complex sexual beings. Jump-starting their libido can be trickier than solving a Rubik's cube. You think you can just show a little skin and wait for him to pounce on you? You're dead wrong. And also not getting any tonight.SEE VIDEO BY TOPIC: Do THIS to turn him on (Make him want you!)
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According to Hollywood, all it takes to fall in love is one epic, mattress-wrecking sex session. But can the way you have sex actually make a man fall uncontrollably in love with you?
And will the way he touches your body leave your emotions totally out of control? During sex, men and women release the bonding chemical dopamine-it's a highly potent combination that not only makes you crave more sex, but actually ties that craving to your partner. Cosmo discovers how you keep that heart-throbbing passion alive How do you create intimacy when you barely know each other and the only thing you currently bond over is a shared love of eating pizza?
The result? That horrible feeling that you're more into this relationship than he is. You Need To play hard to get Playing coy may seem old-fashioned, but the chemistry really does uphold the theory. Men don't form attachment through crazy sex; that's just chemical lust, which fades. The longer they go without reward, the more they repeat attempts to get it-and repetition forges a strong connection. The longer you hold back from actual intercourse, the more the trust can build-and the more oxytocin gets released via all the lovely touching.
So explore the unusual but not too freaky places; try the earlobes, the area between the belly button and pubic bone and even the kidney area-a cheeky ancient Eastern trick that works the energy connection between the genitals and kidneys, apparently. When you do get to the deed, keep it simple; the less there is to worry about, the more relaxed you'll be-and the more likely to reach orgasm.
And if you want him to stick around, Jaiya suggests stroking him lightly all over his body post-orgasm to release more of that in-love chemical, oxytocin. A common mistake is thinking only spontaneity and experimentation will save things when the spark has faded.
If it's planned, it's not the same, right? It's a lack of shared pleasure. Married women 'nest'-again, meaning higher contentment and lower libido. It sounds unsexy, but Dr Carole urges husbands and wives to plan one long sex session every week. Lots of foreplay before sex increases oxytocin levels and will reconnect you sensually, adds Jaiya. Start with a shared bath. Get him to wash your hair or massage you with body oil, then dress in something sexy. Take plenty of time for kissing and touching.
Focus stimulation on the abdomen, too. Tantra experts call this the power centre, and say that stimulating it forges a connection between you and your 'masseur'. Get him to rub it in slow circles with one hand. Another important tip: always sleep naked when possible, suggests Dr Carole, to keep low-level eroticism burning. Taking each other for granted also dissolves marriage ties-but this, too, can be fixed in the bedroom.
Tell your partner why you love what they're doing rather than simply saying you love it-this connects him to your pleasure e. After sex, Jaiya suggests trying tratak-gazing without blinking. You're close but maybe you don't know where to go from here. You're still having sex but it's just a bit If it's just about sex, desperately trying progressively wilder sex never works. If every Friday after work you meet for drinks, have dinner and then have sex, try having the sex first-then go out for cocktails.
Sharing new experiences makes you fall deeper in love-experts suggest simply exploring the sex you already have from a different angle. So have sex minus one of your senses. For example, discuss your fantasies blindfold-it'll help get rid of your inhibitions. Or wear earplugs-they make you focus on your own bodily sensations plus hearing nothing but your own breathing is strangely arousing.
Or try having sex in silence just listening to each other's breath. Alternatively, get him to rub, hold or kiss areas of your body you dislike until you feel comfortable with it. Experts agree that this is deeply intimate when experienced with a trusted partner and can unleash new, powerful erogenous zones.
Try a sex paddle, research has shown that, chemically, a bit of spank at this relationship stage actually bonds you. Finally, if you're nervous about suggesting something unusual, make it easier by including the word 'try'. This helps builds intimacy in your communication - essential for making you feel closely bonded.
Angry, frenzied sex may sound tempting, but if disagreements have distanced you, its better to use sex to get you back in sync. According to Susan, watching a horror movie is the perfect foreplay. Next, try standing-up hugging for three minutes. Sounds strange but we rarely hug for that long. Before sex, lie down together and synchronize your breathing so you inhale and exhale simultaneously. Tantric practitioners regard this as a deeply connecting exercise.
During sex, try to exhale as he inhales and vice versa, which again powerfully aligns you, mentally and physically. Have sex, fingers entwined or with hands placed on each other's chests there are powerful erogenous zones on the palms. And keep kissing. This is a chemical bonding tool and research shows it's one of the first things to go when a relationship falls apart, so don't let it drop from your sexual repertoire.
Let your breathing fall in sync with his, and after a few minutes, try discussing what was tearing you apart. In this relaxed space, sex can rebind a coupling that was starting to crumble. You'll never move on. Research has shown that married men have higher levels of prolactin-the chemical of satiety and satisfaction," explains Susan. Newness is key: "Rearrange your sexual habits. Jaiya adds, "Afterwards, talk about what worked. The scary film stimulates dopamine and the snuggling up releases the oxytocin," she explains.
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Sex when you're in a long-term relationship A common mistake is thinking only spontaneity and experimentation will save things when the spark has faded. When sex has become stale You're close but maybe you don't know where to go from here. Planned pleasure Research has shown that married men have higher levels of prolactin-the chemical of satiety and satisfaction," explains Susan. More From relationships.
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