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3 things to look for in a guy

I recently read an article listing the top seven characteristics you should look for when hiring an employee. As I read through them, it occurred to me that these are exactly the things every girl seeking a life-long relationship should want. They are the qualities that make a marriage work, will build a healthy partnership, and can weather the storms of life. So let me just share with you these seven qualities that make a great employee and are equally important in the arena of dating relationships.

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10 Things A Woman Should Look For In A Man

Last Thursday I picked my 5-year-old up from kindergarten and she informed me that she has a boyfriend. Evidently, when you are 5 small details like names are not important when it comes to relationships. As adults, some of us continue to struggle with knowing what is important in a significant other. I certainly did.

Like so many young adults, I chased the experience of dating, grew addicted to the highs and lows of dysfunctional relationships, and suffered through bringing these bad habits into my marriage. Monica and I seem to be an exception, as so many with similar stories have very different endings. I see clear patterns of what works, and what ends terribly. I see how awful compromises of morals and logic are made when strong feelings get in the way. Men, strive to develop these qualities, by trusting fully in Christ and submitting to His Spirit.

Women, look for a man with these qualities. Men, look for these things in a woman. You want to marry a guy who is: Submissive to authority.

Rebellious guys might grab your heart for a moment, but they will not lead you or themselves well. You want someone who will admit that he is not always right, and be willing to change when others point that out to him. Does he listen to others and yield to wisdom? Hebrews Honest. Does he say what he means and do what he says? Does he go out of his way to speak with whole, complete, and concentrated truth? Without honesty, you cannot trust what he says—including when he says he will commit to you in marriage.

Is he nice to others around him? Does he think of your needs, and the needs of others, ahead of his own? Is he generous and willing to share his possessions and time with others? Is he willing to wait for good things? Does he value you enough to wait for you? Will he stand for what is right when it is difficult, embarrassing, or unpopular? Will he stand up to protect you? Can he control his strength, and balance it with grace? A diligent person can be counted on to provide.

Does he work hard? Proverbs Faithful. This insinuates a reputation. Anyone can fake the things on this list when trying to impress a girl. Does he have a reputation consistent with these character traits? Proverbs Committed to Christ. Christ should be the focus of his life. This looks like yielding to His word, being prayerful, living in community, and being committed to a body of believers. If this is there, will be too. Galatians Men, strive to develop these qualities, by trusting fully in Christ and submitting to His Spirit.

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There are certain traits that the majority of heterosexual women look for in a man: kindness, GSOH, an understanding that the fight for gender equality is very much still ongoing. But other aspects of your personality could be a deal-breaker for one woman and simultaneously the reason another falls in love with you. With the advent of dating apps meaning another love interest is never more than a right swipe away, it can be hard to commit. So if you're wondering whether to settle down with your current partner, it might be worth taking a step back and asking yourself whether he ticks the boxes below. While some of us are naturally brainier than others, a new study from the Hanken School of Economics in Finland suggests that the smarter the man, the less likely he is to be unfaithful. According to the research, more intelligent men are more likely to get married and stay married. Even when the women in the study described their husbands as supportive, they also revealed that the men refused to change their own work schedules or offer to help more with looking after children.

7 Things to Look for in a Man

And what you expect from a guy and from a happy relationship would be very different from what your friend expects. Instead of taking pointers from friends or asking for their opinions all the time, sometimes the easiest way to figure out if a guy is a good match for you is by testing your compatibility with him, keeping your own expectations in mind. A guy could seem perfect for you, your friends may love him, and you may be falling hard for him too. What you see as cocky may be interpreted as confidence by another girl, and what you believe is coy and cute could be misunderstood as low self esteem by a guy you like! There are a few perceived flaws that are completely excusable in a guy.

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10 of the Most Important Qualities Women Look for in a Guy

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It's funny when I think about it, because what women want from a man is what I Any guy who isn't direct is weak. You shouldn't settle for weak. 3. He's faithful.

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